H just called. Said he was returning my call. He sounded calm. I said we really need to talk and resolve these issues. He said we will have plenty of time to talk (don't know what that meant). I told him I was thinking of getting someone to cover my shift tonight and he asked me not to do that, he doesn't want me to get in trouble at work. I said right now I don't care about work, you are more important to me.
As a side note, I was doing some bill paying online and saw that he just took out money in OW's town. So is he running to her to complain about his terrible life with me? This just gets worse and worse and until he can come clean with me I feel this is going to continue forever....