Nothing is really "fixed" in my M other than my attitude but that may be the key for me. Time will tell.
I do understand that perception matters. Why else would my H now be seeing me as someone who should eat MORE pizza rather than LESS.- LOL
Things change whether or not you want them to. I think I am pushing for more change in my relationship because it is really hard for me to see how I would be content with the status quo once the kids are gone. Maybe my "smoke alarm" is going off too early in that regard but I guess I feel like it's only fair play to give my H a sort of "head's up".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
