I'm going to talk to my in-laws tonight. I'm extremely upset with them about their lack of support. It may not make much sense, but if you've been a long-time follower of my sitch, then you know that my own family basically disowned me when I married, and my wife family is really the only family I've got. When my FIL told me, upon our marriage, that I was his son, not his son-in-law, I believed it and have treated our relationship as such.
That's why I'm very upset that he has allowed W to move back in with them. He had specifically promised me that he wouldn't do that. And, now, moving OM's bed into their house is a painful slap in the face.
It's brought me from being satisfied with the progress I've seen to being ready to file for divorce.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)