I know, because my H will say that the coffee I made him was not just right, and what did I do differently, and I wonder why he has to say it. He just doesn't get it. Yes, it is hard to detach, and I want to and plan to, but then the thinking about him starts and I just can't seem to do anything and before I know it, it's time to get S from school, then get things ready for dinner, and H to come home. I am thinking of finding a support group for spouses or probably just for women going through this, not a divorce group, but one where we could talk about our problems, and things that have worked with our Hs, a place I would have to actually drive to each week. But I wouldn't know if there were such a thing, much less where to find it.
We have a couple of gyms near, shopping, anything you could want to shop for, parks, dining, everything from McDonald's to barbecue places, to tea shops, coffee shops, etc. But except for occasionally going to one of the many grocery stores, or to the great giant WalMart, or to get H or S clothes, or to church, I don't do much. I am going to get it together, though, really I am.
I am glad you still go to the mother and toddler group, or rather two groups, I know it must help you a lot. I am sure you are making lots of friends there. And you S is probably making some little friends of his own, and probably has some little girl who is just gaga over him. The little girls loved my S when he was that age, but he just loved to chase them around and around the room or playground. He was a doll when he was little, still is but then he looked like a little blue-eyed, blonde haired angel.
You know it's funny that my H occasionally will mention something he wants to do to our home in the future, so I hope that means he wants to be here, but when I comment and ask him some questions about something to do with the future, he gets a little scared or something, and backs off. Does your H do that?
