Hi L thanks for keeping checking on me I appreciate it.
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The focus is so much on them, and making sure they never get upset with us. That's why we have to detach somewhat, so we can take most the focus off them and put it on us, just for the sake of staying sane
Yeah I know what you mean. I even worry if I make him a cup of tea and its not quite right. H laughed when I told him and said as if he'd leave over a cup of tea. They just don't realise how much of a confidence blow it is to have someone you love leave you do they?? Its hard to detach when you're piecing have you found that too?? I am still meeting with the mother and toddler group - in fact I go to two different ones now.
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I live in the burbs, but everything I could possibly want to do is nearby, but it's hard to want to do anything that takes the focus off our M, but I am beginning to realize I have to, really.
what sort of things do you have near you to do? It is hard to do anything other than try to sort out the M, you're right its like trying to forget about the most important thing ever.
