Yes, I'd like to get perspective, too. I'm working this out for myself by sharing my own DB experiences.
I haven't posted my long situation yet but will muster up the courage to do so pretty soon.
I come here to encourage others. But it breaks my heart to read people's stories. It really does. I know the pain of freaking out and feeling like your whole world is upside down. I know the weirdness of talking to a Christian spouse and suddenly realizing that nothing Jesus said about divorce seems to matter to someone who has professed him as Lord and Savior. I know the pain of temptation, when, month after month, you just want your spouse to touch you with some measure of passion and interest without having to intiate it or ask them to.
