Yes, I often think that the 2,000 mile distance between H and I actually saved our marriage. It really gave H the chance to be without S4 and I. I hear so many people struggle with being friends with their WAS on a day to day basis and wondering if they're just giving them their cake and letting them eat it too. But I don't have to deal with that. I also don't have to worry about the mood of the moment blowing things for me, because when I swing low emotionally, H isn't around for me to fire at. All my interactions with him are very intentional.
I'm interested to find out Deb's history and learn about her career issues, since that's what's on the top of my plate right now.
