Hello all, it's been a while. WAW just gave me petition papers for the big D.
Sorry to hear this. We're in the same boat. I hope it doesn't have a leak.
She's still blaming me for everything that's gone wrong, things that I did 8 years ago.
Well, she has to have some reason.
Still there is no valid reason for this.
But the above (and more like it) may be a valid reason in her mind.
I think that she has someone and just not telling.
Could be. But if so, that's not exactly the real reason for her wanting to end the M. She was unhappy first, then sought outside validation. Or, stumbling into outside validation made her realize how unhappy she was. Something like that...
Not really any consolation to you, of course.
She has strung me along for 4 months and the all of a sudden she files a petition for the D! I never in a million years would have thought that she would do this!
Chances are, though, she had mentally decided it was over long before and couldn't face up to it.
She has turned into someone that I don't know and don't want to know.
Well, this will at least make it somewhat easier for you to move on, although I say easier, not easy. Big difference.
I'm not bitter, nor do I hate her, this can only destroy me so I have to be nice and kind to her like DBing has tought me to be. And I know that God doesn't want me to be like that.
Good. Take the high road, if that's what you want. But remember, it is OK (in fact unhealthy otherwise) to get mad too. Just as long as getting mad doesn't consume you.
Take care
S_O_T_S aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface
I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall
