Hmmmm...I could not find it in the Midlife forum but they all look the same to me now....
So, here's how you link
First, open another window and go the DB thread and find your prior thread....in the address bar copy the link....
Second, come back to THIS thread and press the first button on the menu bar above (looks like the globe with the paper clip on it); then insert the link by hitting the paste function (contol + V) and then another window will pop up. My suggestion is to type in the name of that thread (in your case: Need some help tonight) and presto...it;s linked and we can click on "need some help tonight" and go straight to your original post and then you won't have to re-type it.
lemme know if it doesn't work.
Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
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