Loretta, i do not know you and have only posted a couple of times to you, but I have read and re-read all your posts. You are way to strong and have come way to far to give this woman even a thought. Your H is a very lucky man to have you and he knows that. when the thought of her or confronting her comes into your head, Push it out and put a better thought there. Then, go put your arms around your husband and enjoy your life. My h left 7 months ago says he is never coming back talks divorce ect ect. He is living with OW and i am trying to hang on and do my best. Your stitch has helped me and given me hope. Take care bjehill