LL, thank-you very much for your warm response it is exactly what I needed to hear. Hy H said he found the letter on his truck on Halloween. The gool was out and must have taken the the opportunity to get a good look at me and my H. I asked him why he left the envelope in my car. He said he totally forgot about it. We went out that night had dinner and talked. You know he said the two years he was away is a complete blur to him. He still cant believe he did that. Thanks again LL Take care Loretta