Just to throw my $.02 into the ring... my xH did not have a circ., and its appearance never bothered me (as when it is erect, there's little to no difference in appearance). He never had any medical problems with it. Both our sons were circ'ed, as that was the recommendation of our pediatrician (and it seems to me he had a pretty solid argument FOR circ., tho I can't remember what it was). I also left the decision to 'dad.'
I did cry the entire time the morning I knew it was happening. Both boys and I recovered from the experience.
I'd say either way you go, everyone will be okay.
I'm so excited for you... gosh, I remember when HP just disappeared one day to have Babypot, and we all kind of did the online BB pacing thing... wondering, wondering, wondering... make sure you take a laptop to the hospital with you and report back here the minute you get out of delivery... THEN you can rest and have sweet, lovely bonding family time. (j/k)
