You know I have been thinking about that and one thing is I have not let him know how certain things he does can set me off. So I let it fester and then blow. Like last night, I drove the kids home from my in-laws (45 min high way drive) and it hurt me that he didn't call and check on them or ask me to call so I thought I would tell him, using I statements that it would help me if he would ask me to call him when we get home, that it would show me that he is thinking of kids and I wouldn't feel hurt.
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!
