Good morning all.
I have an interesting muse after reading this thread.
I would like to have a friendship with men while I am healing from my lost relationship with my H. Everyone else in my life seems to encourage this, "moving on". I just do not seem to be able to do this, but yet I see this is so harmful.
Yet, in the back of my mind, as soon as I do move on, my H will be back, or more back, or what? I do have this pattern from him in my life....it is an uncanny thing really, so what to do?
Sorry about the hi jack, just thought it was timely here.....


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.