Good morning all. I have an interesting muse after reading this thread. I would like to have a friendship with men while I am healing from my lost relationship with my H. Everyone else in my life seems to encourage this, "moving on". I just do not seem to be able to do this, but yet I see this is so harmful. Yet, in the back of my mind, as soon as I do move on, my H will be back, or more back, or what? I do have this pattern from him in my life....it is an uncanny thing really, so what to do? Sorry about the hi jack, just thought it was timely here.....
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.