I'm replying to myself again. I hope someone sees this and has something they can say.
Is it depression when my W feels like she can't bear living like this (separated, but not definitively divorced)?
We spend a lot of time together, if that helps anyone understand. I've been trying very hard to be the kind of friend she needs. But it seems that she is dead-set on making sure that we will never be anything more than friends. Even if she does not want to 'lose' me.
What can I do? Some kind of 180?
I really hope someone has some insight into this. We need it.