and just for my own edification whatsis, may I add "some people have no morals!"
Thank god we are not SOME people
It is funny that you say that. I have said that same thing to myself. You know, at one time they did have morals but threw them away because they let the selfishness of their wants take over. They didn't communicate their needs and decided that they were going to go elsewhere. Why? We may never know but I think they are at this point now that they just think, "I have already committed the ultimate sin, so why not go for this full steam ahead."
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."