haven't posted much lately because there's been really nothing going on. I'm close to two years in recovery and things are progressing as "nothing" really happened. With that being said, I'm starting to dream again about his A. There has been a few triggers. He's traveling overnight again and his finances continue to go downhill. I'm a little concerned about this and I think that's what's causing the dreams. Yes, I've talked to him about his finances, not accusing him of being irresponsible, more like, "let me know if I can take over a bill to help with the household finances." He tells me not to worry and then I find out the house payment hasn't been made, and he gets notices in the mail that several of his checks have bounced. What can I do about this? I really feel like I'm walking on eggshells! I could stand up and be strong and "tell" him what I'm going to do, but I think he would take offense to this. He really has gotten himself in a mess and he seems to be getting more and more depressed. Any advise out there for me?
Thanks.
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