I hate that it "doesn't bother you in the least" to be turned down by your H - that smacks of resignation not differentiation. You are too good a person to go around resigned and unfeeling.
That's probably why I was feeling like I should leave. I know it's not a healthy feeling but I don't know how to lose it. Though actually, I'm feeling a lot better now (LOL-you can read that both ways). I had a really weird weekend with my H which gave me some insight into what's going on with me.
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A decision about leaving your M now or in the future certainly bears some exploration before you just respond to one of Mr. MJ's sh*tty comments with a a packed suitcase on the spur of the moment.
Good advice.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
