Well more drama. My W left to go home to DE about 3 weeks ago. She left our dog at our house with friends that were suposed to watch it. I told her to take the dog to DE or get rid of it. She didn't listen and wanted to do it her way. I left our house on Jan 6th. the house was clean (NC house). My W went home to DE about a day after I left for a week. She came home the house(in NC) was trashed her so called "friends" didn't feed or let the dog out she spent the next 2 days cleaning. Itold her these people were not friends she should tell them not to call or come around anymore. She didn't listen the next day they were buddies again, she decided to go back to DE again. I told her to get rid of the dog. Being the brilliant person she is she let the same Aholes watch the dog. now she has been gone for about 3 weeks and I got a call from my command that my wife abandoned the dog with those people and that my house was in violation. No one will tell me what is going on with the house I told the MP to take the stupid dog. So I called my W and sent her money, to get down to NC to figure out what is going on and to get stuff straitened out. Why doesn't she listen?????? She does what ever she wants wheather it screws me over or not. Im tired of it now once again I'll be yelled at because she screwed up, I don't think I can stay in the military and be with her.