Thanks Steve I have been to that site and it is great. Even recommended it to my dd's therapist. So I am trying to do the act if. I even told H that. I said I am going to just pretend that you are my BF and that we have no history. When you are around it's cuz we are dating and spending time together and since you are my bf I will be trying to be nice and treat you well and be on my best behavior and when you leave I won't be angry. I also did an act if this afternoon, one of my H's friends was here and was making plans for super bowl, any way OW was/is friendly with these guys. I kept picturing her showing up for gathering and looking for my H only to be told that he is with his wife and kids....
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!
