I only saw the one that said something about your comments on myspace. You know what, if that is the only thing that she has to complain about, then you are doing something right.

I would absolutely go for full custody. She has already proven that she is an unfit mother right now. I know that it probably is hard for other people to talk about her but to be honest, anyone that puts a SO above her own children...is mental!!!!

I know that if H and I go the D route, he will have limited visitation. He has already proven to me that his priorities do not lie with me and the kids. I would rather them know that he is only going to be there every couple of days than not to know when he will ever be back around. That is me thinking about my kids first and not me. It kills me to have to do that but he will not get shared custody. I don't trust either one of them and their decisions. I am the only constant in my kids lives. My mom and I are the only ones that they know they can count on.

H couldn't even stay long enough yesterday to watch A open her gifts! Selfishness is not appealing to me right now.

"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."