i went skiing again with that guy i met....friends just friends....we have decided to be good friends and listen to each others woes...and we enjoy each others company and i end up feeling good about my self. that cant be a bad thing.
you are treading on shakey ground if you are really trying to stand for your marriage....many many start out listening "to each others woes....and end up feeling good about" ourselves...that is how EA start...and EA lead to PA without our even realizing it...
I too got involved "as friends" with a man who was going through the same thing as me....it caused me to take my mind off of my marriage to the point that I filed for divorce a second time.... we both realized that it was heading quickly to a more serious relationship and I then realized that I was not ready (in so many ways) to be involved with anyone....thankfully, because of my stopping that friendship from going any further I now have my H back....
It is a very risky thing that you are doing....and if you really want to stand for your marriage you might want to re-evaluate this friendship....
I am not judging you...maybe you are done....only you know...but my caution is to be VERY sure....and to be VERY sure that you are whole again....rebounds don't always work out and until you can without pain or tears say you are over H then you are still rebounding...
