steph, sorry you've had a shitty weekend...what a mess w is making for herself...and remember SHE is making a mess for HERSELF...try not to let her actions get to you...difficult when they seem to directly effect you as with the sitter...but keep in mind this is her drama...you can choose to join the play or sit back and watch...
right now I think your doing a pretty good job of watching...I know it's tough not to get dragged up on stage from time to time as with this weekend...but soon you will find your comfy seat in the audiance once again.
(why the hell to I talk in anaologies, do you get what I'm saying)
try to have a good week...perhaps the sitter sit will just blow over after a while.
