I was'nt trying to tell you what you are doing is wrong, please forgive me if it came accross that way. Only you know what is best for you and your situation. It is great that you are managing to accomplish some 180's for yourself.
Regarding the sex thing, i read somewhere that sometimes it can improve the situation, but if you continue to have sex and the situation stays the same (which was what was happening to mine), then you may need to rethink.
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved