don't get it! Help!

[kissak]

Thanks Nickyf for your reply. I am preceeding with caution. I feel like some of the tension is off of us now since we had sex. We were always uncomfortable around each other after he left. Now i feel like a wall has been taken down somewhat to where we are comfortable around each other. I don't know if sex will happen again, but I am here to be his friend and listen to him. It is hard to here him talk of OW, but if he feels comfortable doing that with me, it says alot to me about him, we have talked more about our feelings now than ever before. We are beginning to understand some things about ourselves than before. I know it may seem he is having his cake and eating it to. I don't dissagree, but sex was always an issue with us. I NEVER innisiated it at all and this seems to be a 180 for me. Even the going out and having a drink or 2 isn't something I would normally do and he knows that. BIG 180.