Help! I went Dark for just a week after 6 weeks of the usual crying begging UGGG! He now comes over on Friday night and stays for 6 hours!!! Usually he comes for 30 minutes to see our son. This time ou son was asleep and he stayed the whole evening.He brought up the R talk about coming home after we come home from our cruise (we had this planned for over a year, Disney Cruise with the kids) He is coming on the cruise and says he's coming back home! Do I believe half of what he says? He says I don't want to live this way, "but if I come back and it stays F***up I'm leaving again! Nothing like feeling the pressure of it all. Ok so the cruise is in 4 weeks, do I stay Dark, twilight? He actually reappeared at Church this morning, I almost fell over when I say him there...He told my son he will be back over tomorrow. He told me he wants to take baby steps. I feel like the vacation may be the turning point, my 13 year old says "How weird, he's coming on the cruise?!!I feel like I'm going to sabatoge his return in the next few weeks, although I see he is making steps toward reconsiliation.He tells me Friday night how much he loves me "i wouldn't have married you" Doesn't feel like love right now. In my mind I keep saying "if that were the case why are you still at Mom's, your friends etc. I know, I know, hold me back I keep wanting to rush things..Is there a DB book on how to keep him from leaving again, he's left over 10 times in the last 7 years...I can't go through this again
