Quoting lostlove: you can do this steph... don't doubt your wifes love for you...so she's not inlove...let her go and figure out what the feelings she does have for you mean.
I know we love each other...the caring and compassion and friendship are all there...but a huge piece of the puzzle is missing: she is not IN LOVE. I dont consider that to be a whole lot of nothing! The title to my thread states my present situation and frame of mind perfectly! How can we begin to "be in love" again?
I haven't had a single clear answer yet...and I am fresh out of ideas!