Steph, I hear ya loud and clear.I don't think my h is "in love" with me anymore, cause he sure shows no signs of any kind. I know it's been a month(Wednesday) that he moved. I realized the other day that our healing has just begun, as the past months he was just in a fog about getting out on his own, so alot of wasted time that I thought he was working on him..wrong, but at least I was working on me.
Our friends here have helped me at low times to remember that our spouses are on their own private journey. They can't see past the hurt, anger, confusion, whatever it is they are "lookin" for to see that we are hurting too. So...while I don't have advice, hang on to the hope that until she files, tells you to take a hike, all the sure signs that your m is over over, she still wants you in her life. We have to keep our sanity!!!! Bye Sue
