Time to Rebuild

[Jen_Jam]

Just a quick update, H and I still in love and things working well. It's almost as if the horrors of the last year and a half have been some bad dream.
H is strating now to take on board some of the things I've said along the way, he's starting to realise that he's not so great and he's not right all the time and if he wants to change something he's better off doing something rather than sitting about moaning or blaming someone else.
He's also realising that his habit of not forgiving people things contradicts his own desire to be forgiven. He says he doesn't want to hang on to bitterness, but he's been doing that. I think he's finally growing in the way I have been. I will be there to support him all the way.

That's it really - things chugging along, I'm glad I found this place it's been so helpful because I feel now I have or can develop the tools required for a happy M, old me was clueless!!!

So - hope all are doing well, and please remember that even if your sitch feels entirely hopeless you won't feel this low for ever. The future will be bright!!