If the divorce is filed there is no need to do a legal seperation....
And what Grace said about the sex....yes, older guys are more experienced (I would hope) but they can't keep up....my H finally admitted that the weekends he spent with OW consisted of ONE sex session....I said "What?...You have got to be kidding me!"....He said while he can last (this I know) the "recharge is longer"....he couldn't perform more then once with her no matter how exciting things were....he said she always wanted more but he couldn't do it....then later when health problems caused him to be pretty much impotent he said he appreciated my patience and commented that she would have been "MAD" at him....I asked why she would have been mad it wasn't like he wanted to be....he said that is how she was....she would have been mad if she didn't get sex....so while the "young thing" might be exciting and even cute they don't have experience and patience that us older gals have....
So basically when the money is gone there is NOTHING left for them and they move on....but while the money is there the stupid MLC'er likes to believe that the OW is really head over heals about him and loyal....all the stuff that feeds their ego...because remember they have experience....which as a mature woman I would take any day over inexperience....but without money the OW won't be happy....because the $$$ is there excitement....