it's been kind of freaky to hear him repeating phrases I've used with him...."i won't let my value be determined by my job," or, "It is what it is," or, "In the end that's his problem, not mine."
You can say that again!!! I'm now getting "something you said to me ages ago was absolutely right" My H is FINALLY taking on board the things I've said to him, it has taken MONTHS but he's realised he's not so great and right after all (he can tend to take the moral high ground at times) and that maybe sometimes he should listen to me. Fortunatly I've changed enough to realise I'm not always right too.
Rob and SD - we are all getting there!!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.