OK, now I'm getting a whole bunch of messages ??? One to tell me she appreciated my call, to let her know how I appreciated her listenning to me. The other to tell me that when i come home tonight she can come over and put d to bed (What?). And a third to tell me our d's scarf is at her mother's and she can go get it if I want and bring it over!

So why the sudden interest in coming over? To make things right? To show me that she IS available?

B.S.! Its not her coming over tonight that will actually make up for the fact she CHANGED our plans for the weekend! I still come in second and that she can not change right now! I wil be fine without her this weekend! Dont feel like calling her back, just want to go on with my own plans (2 B-day partys to go to today with my daughter ).

Steph