So much for being calm and stable. I blew up last night (for the first time in 6 weeks) when W wanted to bring OM's bed into her parents' house for D4 to sleep on ... and my FIL didn't have a problem with it. I was mainly upset with him, and not with W (who of course is oblivious to these things).
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)