Oh I need patience. Yesterday was R talk all day...very painful. We almost agreed to D last night but for THE VERY FIRST TIME he started admitting he was worried about what was happening to the kids. So after much anger crying accusations blame etc he left but will be back today and we will continue trying.
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!