Can you have a really good talk with her, not r talk, but i guess try to find out what she really wants from you? She must know that you are still going to be the best Dad for your d, so what is she wanting??I think I would be so frustrated if my h kept stating over and over that the m is over, and then kept coming around. That is an emotional game that you can only take so much of.I commend you for the patience.Good luck on this new journey.. sue
