Quote: ...and for heavens sake when you get an invitation....don't question her motives...
My fear here is that she wants me around simply to aliviate her own guilt! That is far from my goal. I fear she may be starting (or thinking of) a new realtionship with someone new, but feels extremely guilty for 1-leaving me 2- breaking up the family 3- my spending Christmas alone BECAUSE of no.1...leaving me. I have no intention of being her fix! She must deal with her own guilt and leave me out of it!
Quote: but it sure sounds like she does not want it to be over
Oh but she does...says she does, and worries that these invitations give me that same impression (that it is not over). So again, why is she doing it? I dont have the answer! Other than guilt that is!
