That is entirely possible, but is thsi how it will be for the rest of our lives...I have to ask permission to be there at some very special moments! What if she says: Sure I'll call the minute she wakes up. That is no good either! I have sent her an e-mail (absolutely NOTHING bad in it...not even a bad vibe!) and will wait to see her reaction. It may end up fixing itself quite well...and I am panicing for nothing at the moment. Better to wait and see!

Steph