I am in the same situation, however my husband hasn't been interested for a very long time. Tries to blame me for becoming frigid first, but it all has to do with a feeling that something else is going on. I found a several cell phone calls to OW, but he won't admit to being other than friends. Every time I bring it up he gets very defensive and mad. We are going to counseling next week, but in the meantime I am still snooping and feel sick to my stomach 24/7. I would love to find out how to get cell phone bill, anyone know? This week I did try last resort technique of acting like nothing is wrong and it's working. He has been calling from work and acting really sweet. Maybe a confession is to come-wishful thinking I suppose.
