I myself am struggling with whether or not to call my husband. The last time I spoke to him was last saturday and he seemed irritated with me. So, I've not contacted him at all for 6 days.
Today I sent him a cute ecard, just a friendly hi, nothing more.
I'm thinking I should wait until he responds to the card...but I oh so badly am wanting to call so I can see how he responds.
At the same time, I don't want my good feelings to be based on our relationship any more. I want to have my moods completely independent of his. Is this realistic or is it more likely that a couple will slightly influence each other.
Of course, his mood isn't influencing me at the moment, it's his no contact that has me flumoxed.
It seems like you are making great progress at keeping your mood up despite what mood she has.
The last time I spoke to him was last saturday and he seemed irritated with me. So, I've not contacted him at all for 6 days. 
I want to have my moods completely independent of his. Is this realistic or is it more likely that a couple will slightly influence each other. 
