I definitely would do the tough love approach too, I wish I would have jumped on the EA sooner, then it wouldn't have turned into the PA (IMHO). I had those gut feelings for a long time and never acted on it, by the time I did, it had been going on for quite a while. - Hindsight is great isn't it?
Anyway, I know some would disagree with me, but I did the snooping to convince myself I wasn't insane more than anything. I guess it all depends on what you can handle and what you can't. Personally, I can't stand being lied to - that is worse than the A itself.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
