Quote: Not three weeks ago we were away for the weekend with my family, and had a grand old time...why is it that now, I want nothing to do with her?
why you want nothing to do with her.... perhaps it's just easier that way... be my wife or get lost... the fact that just three weeks ago you had been enjoying her company should not be forgotten...I would for now not drop her from the c sessions...and remember you pay the c... if you do not see what they are doing working speek up...if you think it futile to talk about how your parents solved issues then say so... what your parents did is no more significant than what your neighbors do...what works for one couple does not work for another...
I think you should still ALLOW wife to join you in these sessions just use them differently now... use them to learn to communicate... perhaps instead of talking about the r and how to fix IT you can discuss things like her not being avail when you tried to drop d off and then her anger at YOU... try to shift the focus to...ok we need to communicate and get along so that we can co-parent... this will take pressure of the r.. and you can go from there with it.. LL
