well if she wants to and you are still open to a reconcile at somepoint then I wouldn't cut her out of the sessions.. since you have moved it to a couple thing I would suggest you keep the joint sessions and make sessions for yourself as well.. you have w already going that is a good thing if you need to talk about your feelings with the c make your own sessions. If w is going just so the two of you can learn to get along then that is what you should do...learn to just get along... if you stop trying to "save the marriage" then you can just learn to get along... work on communication bla bla bla (know ya like that one) she wants the sessions go she will see the difference. LL
