Snogirl.

Every single thing you wrote in your first paragraph, was exactly what happened to me.

And now here you are.

You are not an idiot.

You have blown nothing.

I think you have been lurking for a while, so I hope you read all the info on the top of the board.

You know what is happening now

you have distanced your self,

and now he pursuing.

How long will it last? I don't have an answer for you.

If you are standing for your marriage, I dont' think dateing is a good idea.

That is a decision you have to come to on your own.

But if you are here asking about Your H, i know you want your marriage to work out.

So I would just continue what you are doing. Be not so available, and when you are available be super nice.

Guess what, have some patience, it will be another 180 for you.

“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”