Thanks for your post on my thread, but you said I was in a better place than I think. I guess I just don't see what i maybe really have.
As for your c session, can't you just make an appointment and go alone? You don't need to tell w? It's not like keeping a secret from her, it is for you.I was thinking of going back to our c, alone, and I don't think I will tell my h.My h has openly told me he is talking to our minister, alone. I think it is great that he has someone, he says in c she never said it was ok to have these feelings of unsureness,of course c was under the assumption that our only problem was communication, we never really opened up. I think you have to be able to open your feelings and work on those alone before you can completely heal the hurt, anger, and junk in a m.I am hoping that h is doing that with minister. I really like her, but she is divorced and she told my h that he has to do what is right for him, and not to worry about what other people think(mainly about him needing his own space)I know they are human too, but I would guess they believe in marriage and trying to keep it together. Why am I even questioning her beliefs just because she is d???
Sorry, I was rambling.If you need to talk to c, then go alone. If you feel like you want to tell w, ask her if she might want to go solo for awhile.You seem to be able to handle her with much patience and kindness, if she does not like the idea, well.... See ya Sue
