This IS supposed to be a Q & A thread right? Well, here goes. I know Monday is a far way off, but I am already thinking about our C session. Even though I feel like I am detaching more than I ever have, I still feel like I should use these sessions to try and work on my marriage...mostly by obligation at this point, since my wife is willing to come along. I have the opportunity to go with my wife, but dont really feel like her coming along! I think I would like to go alone, but also feel like I HAVE to allow her the chance of accepting or refusing to come. I also worry of the message I would be sending to my wife by asking her NOT to come. My plan for the moment is simply not to mention it to my wife, if she askes about our session and wether I want her to come or not and then answering that she can come if she wants but that it is not becessary. But then I would be lying. I DONT WANT her to come! I think I need to talk to the counseler about MY feelings, about how I feel, about my personal growth, my detachment, my anger and my wife's over reactions!
Any clue? Any 2 cents worth is worth more than 2 cents (right KAW)!
Steph P.S. Of course, I dont really have to make up my mind for 4 more days!
