Will continue to pray for her. As for W, don't focus on whether she visis or not. If she says she's been sick, then just accept what she says. She has been contacting you to check up on your Mom so I'm sure she cares.
It does sound like you are exhausted with all that has been going on. Most importantly take care of yourself.
We are all here supporting you and your family.
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On
