(((DBH))). I'm really glad to see you've posted again. You sound like you are in a good, honest, spot. Sad, yes, but accepting and moving forward as well. I had to cringe at what you posted about people righting your H off because he owed them money, but not because he ran away from his family--too true isn't it. I'm learning those people are not necessarily ones I need in my life either!
