Quoting Stephanep: I am totaly at peace with the way I am. More so than I have ever been. But it also seems sad to have reached this place. Like it could very well be the end of my relationship, but that I no longer care enough to make any effort?
Ironically (and often expressed on this board), you are reaching the end of the old R ... no longer trying to hold on to what was once was. You are transitioning into the last stage of detachment and starting to feel the true results of working on yourself and will soon be prepared to work on a new R when the time comes.
Michelle wrote in her book that in working on yourself, you will achieve a state where you no longer feel the need to persue and is willing to let the S go. When the WAS senses this, it often triggers a pull to attract them back to you.
So just do your own thing for a while, Steph ... relax ... take a breather ... but keep a watchful eye so you can notice any changes that may come about.
