Quoting lostlove:
hope that you are finding a new peace with yourself (wich is sounds like you are) enjoy the new phase you've entered hold onto it as long as you can!!!


I am totaly at peace with the way I am. More so than I have ever been. But it also seems sad to have reached this place. Like it could very well be the end of my relationship, but that I no longer care enough to make any effort?

We have a C session next Monday, I am already dileberating wether or not I will ask my wife NOT to come (when we made the appointment, she planned on coming). I sort of feel like I want to go on my own, to get my barings straight, find a focus, get approval for my feelings (Ya Ya, I know, I dont need anybody`s approval to feel any way I do!!! lol). A session with my wife serves very little purpose now. First of all, she has said time and again that it IS over...and second, I am now feeling like I WANT it to be??? So what would be the goal in going to a session with my wife?

Again, am I making any sense here?

Steph