Don't sweat it man. If that is how you are feeling right now then just accept it. I know that we all start out on this journey to save our marriage but I agree that at some point the other partner needs to contribute to rebuilding as well.
Keep up the positive changes, I have noticed a definite change in tone between now and your earlier posts. I seems you have found some peace at last. You sound like you are in a much better place emotionally than just a few weeks ago. Thats good.
I read in a post by KentS that DB'ing is an endurance event and that you need to be in it for the long haul. Take this time to recharge your batteries. This distance you are feeling may just be your way of catching your breath.
Peace Out.
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